Then I can’t recommend Feminist Frequency, especially not her Tropes vs Women series of videos.
Anita Sarkeesian is an interesting guide into the world of unconscious cultural assumptions and beliefs. I will say that it can be uncomfortable to have your subconscious reference points dragged out and examined but for a person interested in better understanding themselves and the world around them it is a necessary experience.
Below is the most recent video Tropes vs Women in Video Games: Damsels in Distress
Feminist Frequency’s main webpage: http://www.feministfrequency.com/
Feminist Frequency on YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/feministfrequency